This all started just over a year ago when I saw Alicia training at my gym. I thought wow this woman is in amazing shape and I want to be just like her. At that stage in my life I was contemplating doing another fitness competition. I did one about 5 years ago and it was the worst experience of my life. I got really sick during my prep due to a nutritionist not listening to me and my body. It took me a whole year to get my body back but its still been a process to get my mind back to loving my body. I had the worst body image of myself, and I know Alicia can confirm that. I hated every part of my body and was totally uncomfortable with myself on the inside and outside.
Fast forward a few years and a several pounds later and here I was stalking Alicia on social media. When finally, I took the plunge and decided to email her and see if she could take me under her wing. And she responded yes! We decided I had the shape to compete in figure and that was the goal! I sent in my start up questionnaire and check in photos and there was no turning back.
There are a lot of things I love about Alicia, but one of the most important things was that she listened to me. Every week during my check-ins I would tell her how I was feeling and how I my body felt. She took that into consideration when creating my new programs month to month or week to week. I never had a coach do that. She would also send me little pep talks, as there were several times where I just didn’t feel happy with my body! And she really taught me how to love myself from within. With that my confidence slowly built up!
We were chipping away at my body up until July 21st2017. The day I got engaged and everything changed!! We shifted from competition prep into wedding prep! Week after week we chipped away at my body, slimming down to fit into my size 4 dress, yes I said size 4! I have never been that size before, and word could not describe the feelings I had that day when I said ‘YES’ to the dress. My body was shaping up so nicely and I was fitting into clothing sizes I never really dreamed about fitting into. Not to mention that size 4 dress had to be taken in a little!!! I dropped weight and I reach a new milestone, I finally made it under 20% body fat! Something I never thought I would be able to do. I toned every part of my body and those thunder thighs were finally gaining shape! I could ever see quad cuts! Woo!!
A year of hard work between the two of us and there I was waking up on my wedding as a new person. Not just because that was the day I was marrying the love of my life but because I finally loved myself. I loved every part of my body, a feeling I have never really experienced. Since I was little, I was always the tall ugly duckling that didn’t really fit in. I played sports to help but I was still teased all through my younger years. This is where my poor self esteem stemmed from. BUT NOT ANYMORE!!!! Alicia turned me from an average joe into a stunning bride!! Something I can not thank her enough for!
But what I really want to thank her for is all her hard work that went into not only making me the most beautiful bride but for helping me change my mind set towards myself and for giving my the tools to grow and learn! I have never been this confident in myself! I bought a cheeky bottom bikini something I never thought would have happened in a million years! And for that I will always be grateful to have Alicia!!!